Yep ok.how about you post what you like? and if we don't like it don't read it. Do you understand the insanity of that concept. All you have done is attack this lady for a mistake that she has already acknowledged she made and wont repeat...
Nat - you acknowledged very early on that the lesson has been learnt about responding to the ex's crap. Good on you.... And as such you don't deserve the abuse of thatbloke...
Don't worry about the mediation certificate expiring. Do mediation again with legal aid isn't a bad option. Be reasonable and they just might fund you through to court. Stay strong. But why not outline the details here and you might get some opinions about how to move things forward... So you reckon there is about a mill in assets? Is any of it a house / apartment? if so whose name is on the title?
His name is on everything. He refused to add my name to anything. I am not a monster, or some untrustworthy person and never gave him that impression. I worked for 14 yrs out of the 20 and put my teaching degree on hold to help him start up his business. I have been very supportive of him through everything. I am not perfect. Of course I argue with him.
There is a business that has 4 trucks and he valued that at only $10k thats grossly undervalued. House is valued at $670k. There is approx 6 cars of value that he has now stated his family members owe. 100k in super for him.
His debts, I am unsure because he has given a different figure all the time. He asked me to lie to child support so he doesn't have to pay much, and said if I apply for child support, he will take the kids off me, so I signed a letter on the amount he wanted to pay which is $160 a week for private arrangement. When I first applied for child support, his payments were meant to be $725 a fortnight based on his income. And care arrangements.
I have 20k super. I have had to withdraw some due to financial commitments. I am returning back to work as a teacher aide this week for 2 days a week so that will affect my legal aid most likely.