Hi,
So after seeking a lawyer in regards to property settlement, I have been informed now to send a letter of full disclosure to my ex. It will save a lot of money so they tell me. Well, my ex turned up last Wednesday and read my mail that was on my bench. He then has gotten nasty and now has informed me he is taking out a court order for contacting his girlfriend and asking her for him to stop calling me.
I also did tell her he is a lying piece of s**t, I accept that as wrong. At the tim, I just wanted him to leave me alone, and I thought if I let her know, it would stop him from harassing me. This is a man who would call me asking for sex. I don't have proof because it was said over the phone so it is my word against his. He's very good at that and makes sure to be nice in texts but nasty in phone calls, so i stop answering and it seems to have worked.
My questions are, does he have enough for a DVO? And secondly, he has now stated that he is concerned about the well being of his children and accused me of bad-mouthing him to them. Yes, I did tell our 21-year-old her father was a piece of s**t and a liar. I was angry and annoyed and yes, I should not have done that.
I am worried that he also wants to put the kids' names on it. How does that affect family court, etc.? We have no orders in place.
So after seeking a lawyer in regards to property settlement, I have been informed now to send a letter of full disclosure to my ex. It will save a lot of money so they tell me. Well, my ex turned up last Wednesday and read my mail that was on my bench. He then has gotten nasty and now has informed me he is taking out a court order for contacting his girlfriend and asking her for him to stop calling me.
I also did tell her he is a lying piece of s**t, I accept that as wrong. At the tim, I just wanted him to leave me alone, and I thought if I let her know, it would stop him from harassing me. This is a man who would call me asking for sex. I don't have proof because it was said over the phone so it is my word against his. He's very good at that and makes sure to be nice in texts but nasty in phone calls, so i stop answering and it seems to have worked.
My questions are, does he have enough for a DVO? And secondly, he has now stated that he is concerned about the well being of his children and accused me of bad-mouthing him to them. Yes, I did tell our 21-year-old her father was a piece of s**t and a liar. I was angry and annoyed and yes, I should not have done that.
I am worried that he also wants to put the kids' names on it. How does that affect family court, etc.? We have no orders in place.