In early August at our interim hearing, the ex, the ICL and I agreed to Orders by Consent for each party to pay money to a trust account by mid September to engage a Chapter 15 expert. I paid the money, now the ex is claiming she does not have the money and is requesting 6 months to pay in instalments. The issue is the ICL can not engage the psychiatrist until money is paid. The ICL suggested an amendment to the Consent Orders whereby I pay and that the ex pays me in installments over six months. I agreed to this as it would not delay this any longer, however the ex did not agree as she did not want to be indebted to me. The child is 3 years old. I have limited time with my child which finally came through after the interim hearing. I am now self representing as this whole thing is dragging on and costing way too much money, while the ex has just dumped her fifth lawyer and is now self representing. The ICL has just requested the court for the matter to be re-listed. I am not sure how long it will take before it is relisted but what can I expect at the next hearing and is there anything I should request or do I just go along and see what the ICL says?