If there are children involved, mediation has to be undertaken before applying for a parenting order. However, if you can come to agreement on the children, mediation is not necessary. If there is property, go and get some free legal advice from a community legal service. You can come to your own agreement, but if there aren't orders, and for example, after you have agreed on the property split, one party then gets an inheritance within 12 months from the divorce, the other party can then attempt to get a portion of that inheritance. A good online cost effective mediation practice is Aid Resolutions.