Hi there, We have family court orders for every other weekend, however my daughter's dad moved to QLD 3 years ago and we all made an agreement that that would be too much travel for her, and we would do it once a month. I would drive half way to drop her off and pick her up. Now he has moved back to the area ( we still live in different towns) and is insisting we go back to the original orders, which I understand is what normally should happen, however, my daughter turns 14 in a few weeks and has asked her dad if it can be every 3 weeks instead of fortnightly. He won't agree. She would not go a fortnight ago and this weekend she is meant to spend with him again. She doesn't want to go. Does she now have the right to decide? Am I breaking the family court orders? Am I meant to physically have to drag her to the car? My daughter is devastated. Please help.