Hi. My son is 14 and does not want to stay with his father fortnightly or on holidays. We have family court orders and I have children most of the time ( custody of children), but my daughter moved out to live with her father and I see her fortnightly. My son does not want to see his dad. What is the legal age for a child to say 'no' to staying with a parent? I didn't say 'no' to my daughter staying with her dad. She is 16 and has a job through school. She is wanting the more one on one time as I share my time with three other children, which I can understand. Do I need to go to court and redo our order and can I do it through Legal Aid? I have no job at present.