Hi, I will try and keep an extremely complex and lengthy situation brief. I was married to a qld police officer for just over 20 years and divorced 11 years ago. He subjected me to domestic violence of all forms for the entire 20 years. He has continued to contact me the past 11 years even though I have told him, in writing, to never contact me by any means, including digital. We have no need to communicate as one child is now 26 years old and the other has been killed. The 26 year old has cut all ties with his father and refuses to have contact with him. the cyber stalking by my ex-husband is to both myself and my adult son. My ex husband has been electronically monitoring us both for the last 11 years. He constantly access our personal details and "checks the system to see what we are up to". My son has had some serious health issues, which my husband has discovered, and turned up to the hospital on two separate occasions. He enters the hospital via the entrance for medical or ambulance staff, in uniform, and asks for all details of my son's condition. The staff always give him this information as he states he is the father, and he is in uniform. I have made complaints to the CMC, who just hand it to the QPS to investigate. They have sanctioned him and he has given an undertaking to not do it again. Exactly the same results as the last time I made this complaint. They sent me a letter stating that "all your claims have been substantiated". This man will never leave us alone; can I sue him personally for stalking us? Both my son and I are suffering depression from the abuse of this man and I have diagnosed PTSD from it as well.