Hi there, After only the mention the applicant has filed a discontinuance. We were ordered to have a family report. His papers was full of lies and foul accusations about my mental state ( none of it true) and false claims of alienating the children from him. This was very upsetting at the time and I sought good legal advice of which cost me a lot of money. I had a very good case against him and neither of the children have a healthy relationship with him at this time. My question is...should I still go through the steps of the family report and what happens if I do. In my orders i ask for full parental responsibility of both the children and I am keen on having this moving forward. He is very difficult to deal with and he is planning to travel in a caravan as soon as he can. The kids are 16 and 13 and are old enough to know what they want, I am very open and agreeable if either wishes to have a better relationship with their father in the future.