We agreed to sell our homes and jointly build a home with a flat so that we could live together and I could care for her. Her home sold before we agreed so I then sold mine and a week after exchange of contracts she withdrew from the deal. We had already placed a deposit on a block of land and accepted a quotation for a home with a flat attached. We have signed a lease for a rental property to accommodate both of us. I am out of pocket through agent costs, stamp duty, legal fees 6 months rent, removals costs etc. to the tune of about $60,000 .... can I recoup these cost from her?