Hi
I am hoping my partner will be amicable with regards to our defacto break up. When he broke up I think he thought we would just work it out between us, nothing formal. But after 24 years, we owe it to each other to do it fairly. And I just want to get on with it now, no more contact and fights, Im done.
He is working away at the moment. 2 weeks on 2 weeks of in the mines. So havent heard from him last few days, and not expecting too.
I understand he has a right to still live with us when he is back, but it makes things harder for all of us, especially the kids, they need happy parents.
As we have not worked out the property split etc, what happens at this point with regards to bills, his living arrangements? Bank accounts etc. All of that stuff?
He has threatened to start a new bank account for his wage, I dont think he will, but my wage wont cover everything, and he knows it worries mr when he says stuff like that.
We have a saving account, what if he moves this too an account under his name. I would like to think he wouldnt, but, hes not really been himself of late.
Any advice would be awesome
Thanks
I am hoping my partner will be amicable with regards to our defacto break up. When he broke up I think he thought we would just work it out between us, nothing formal. But after 24 years, we owe it to each other to do it fairly. And I just want to get on with it now, no more contact and fights, Im done.
He is working away at the moment. 2 weeks on 2 weeks of in the mines. So havent heard from him last few days, and not expecting too.
I understand he has a right to still live with us when he is back, but it makes things harder for all of us, especially the kids, they need happy parents.
As we have not worked out the property split etc, what happens at this point with regards to bills, his living arrangements? Bank accounts etc. All of that stuff?
He has threatened to start a new bank account for his wage, I dont think he will, but my wage wont cover everything, and he knows it worries mr when he says stuff like that.
We have a saving account, what if he moves this too an account under his name. I would like to think he wouldnt, but, hes not really been himself of late.
Any advice would be awesome
Thanks