My wife and I have been separated for 2 years now ( separation) and I will be applying for a divorce next week. She has the house under her name. We have been married for 18 years, and we have a 14-year-old child. My wife said I will get nothing because the house under is her name before we were married. Now can she sell the house before I go ahead with the property settlement, or can she give it to my stepson (her son) who is 24 years old as a gift before the settlement. Am I allowed to get some money or not? If I am allowed to get some money, but she sold it before the property settlement, will I still get any, because she has sold it before the property settlement? Also I really want to get a divorce but can she refuse in the family court because she has to come to court because we have a child? I am just worried if she knew I will be divorcing her and want a property settlement together because she might get mad and delay the divorce. Can she delay the divorce? Also, can I get some money even if the house is under her name? And if she sells the house now before property settlement, can I still get any money? She might sell the house and it will be too late to do a property settlement. Thank you.