Just seeking some help as we are very distraught at this moment and have no idea how to tackle this! My partner has been separated from his ex for well over a year now. When they first separated she stopped him from seeing his child and he was not in a good place because they had a bad break up. Anyways, she ended up putting a Domestic Violence Order on him because he kept texting her to see his son ( harassment as she listed in the Domestic Violence Order). As soon as he was served with it, he pulled his head in and finally realized it's about his son. Not them. So basically for about 8 months now, both parties have been fine. She is now engaged and moving on with her life, him and I are fine, etc. and we got to see him every second weekend Friday to Monday on most occasions. There is no child support in place because both parties agreed, you buy your stuff, we buy our stuff, and if anything big comes up 50/50 split. Yesterday, we text her asking her what time she was dropping him off for our weekend to see him, as we have done for the last 8 months and she said she was in Sydney. Then we asked when they would be back, and she said that she doesn't know and it would be 3 months until we see him again. Which means we will miss out on his birthday and Christmas! Nothing was ever mentioned to us nor was it discussed. He has been pulled out of kindy and the majority of his family is up here! How do we get him back? Where do we stand? What can we do? Please help!