Hi, I have known a guy for 12 years, we have lived together in my house off & on over this period, mostly off.. He is a hothead & a drifter.. In & out of work when he chooses to move on somewhere else of his choice.. Mainly Kalgoorlie for a year or two & on a few occasions months...
When things don't suit him he takes off in his caravan & parks up at a couple of caravan parks for a few months at a time.. He came back from Kalgoorlie just after Xmas this year & as things were not acceptable, I ask him to leave last week... I have been taking care of him as he has had bad health over this time. I have only asked him to pay a board of between $150 when he was unemployed & getting the dole & $200 a week when he is working which includes food & amenities...
I own my house & have lived in it for 31 years.. He had no input to the running of my home or any contributions towards the upkeep or acquisition of any purchases... All my furniture & assets are mine.. He is saying he got legal advice & has been told he can claim de facto against me for this time.. We haven't had a sexual relationship for a long time & he has always told me he doesn't feel that way about me...
I feel scared & foolish..
Regards
(I am 69 yo)
When things don't suit him he takes off in his caravan & parks up at a couple of caravan parks for a few months at a time.. He came back from Kalgoorlie just after Xmas this year & as things were not acceptable, I ask him to leave last week... I have been taking care of him as he has had bad health over this time. I have only asked him to pay a board of between $150 when he was unemployed & getting the dole & $200 a week when he is working which includes food & amenities...
I own my house & have lived in it for 31 years.. He had no input to the running of my home or any contributions towards the upkeep or acquisition of any purchases... All my furniture & assets are mine.. He is saying he got legal advice & has been told he can claim de facto against me for this time.. We haven't had a sexual relationship for a long time & he has always told me he doesn't feel that way about me...
I feel scared & foolish..
Regards
(I am 69 yo)