I will be 17 in just under a month, and would like to know if I have any rights to refuse to see my mother.
I currently live with my father, and every holiday break my mother insists on me spending one week with her and the other with my father. I do not always want to spend such a long time with her, and sometimes I'm too busy or stressed to commute down to Melbourne to see her.
During the Christmas break my parents also have been rotating turns on what family we spend the actual holiday with, so the majority of my holidays are spent with whatever side of the family they have agreed on. Mother also insists that however they plan my holidays will mean that my two younger sisters will be spending the whole break with me.
I'll be honest, I don't have the best relationship with either of my parents or sisters, and sometimes I'd like to just spend a few days visiting without my sisters, but every time I try to mention this to my parents they get angry at me for not wanting to be with my sisters.
I also have no information on what legal agreement my parents have made regarding where I stay or how long I visit who.
To put it simply, can I refuse to spend time with my mother and/or ask for time to spend with either parent away from my siblings as a 17 year old. Will I have to wait until I'm 18, and when I turn 18, what will my legal rights be under family law regarding my parents?
I currently live with my father, and every holiday break my mother insists on me spending one week with her and the other with my father. I do not always want to spend such a long time with her, and sometimes I'm too busy or stressed to commute down to Melbourne to see her.
During the Christmas break my parents also have been rotating turns on what family we spend the actual holiday with, so the majority of my holidays are spent with whatever side of the family they have agreed on. Mother also insists that however they plan my holidays will mean that my two younger sisters will be spending the whole break with me.
I'll be honest, I don't have the best relationship with either of my parents or sisters, and sometimes I'd like to just spend a few days visiting without my sisters, but every time I try to mention this to my parents they get angry at me for not wanting to be with my sisters.
I also have no information on what legal agreement my parents have made regarding where I stay or how long I visit who.
To put it simply, can I refuse to spend time with my mother and/or ask for time to spend with either parent away from my siblings as a 17 year old. Will I have to wait until I'm 18, and when I turn 18, what will my legal rights be under family law regarding my parents?