Hello, I need help please.
I have three children (8,5,3). Their father and I separated almost three years ago as he is highly aggressive and an alcoholic. I have had the children with me since. For approx 12 months, he would see them maybe twice a fortnight for an hour or so, but he said he couldn't afford child support so to try and help, I told the Child Support Agency that he had them twice a week.
After about a year, I told him he would need to actually have them twice a week to keep paying less. He eventually did. Tuesdays from about 4pm until Wednesdays 5pm and Saturdays 4pm until Sundays 9am. The kids have been coming home worse each time. It is now at the point that our 8-year-old is out of control and an emotional wreck.
A few days ago, my ex took off with them. I called the police but as there is no parenting orders, etc., they could not help. When I got them back, they were all hysterical. I told him it is no longer in their best interests to be going to him and he would need to start family court if he wants to have them.
The biggest trouble is we are meant to be moving back to QLD with my new partner in December. My ex was happy to go back to QLD until he found out I had moved on. He is now saying he will stop me from leaving the state. Can he?
I really don't know what to do. When he has the children, I'm terrified. They have been in the hospital because he didn't keep them safe. He always screams at them and tells them "your mother is a dumb sl**" amongst other things.
Suggestions on Family Law? Help? :'(
I have three children (8,5,3). Their father and I separated almost three years ago as he is highly aggressive and an alcoholic. I have had the children with me since. For approx 12 months, he would see them maybe twice a fortnight for an hour or so, but he said he couldn't afford child support so to try and help, I told the Child Support Agency that he had them twice a week.
After about a year, I told him he would need to actually have them twice a week to keep paying less. He eventually did. Tuesdays from about 4pm until Wednesdays 5pm and Saturdays 4pm until Sundays 9am. The kids have been coming home worse each time. It is now at the point that our 8-year-old is out of control and an emotional wreck.
A few days ago, my ex took off with them. I called the police but as there is no parenting orders, etc., they could not help. When I got them back, they were all hysterical. I told him it is no longer in their best interests to be going to him and he would need to start family court if he wants to have them.
The biggest trouble is we are meant to be moving back to QLD with my new partner in December. My ex was happy to go back to QLD until he found out I had moved on. He is now saying he will stop me from leaving the state. Can he?
I really don't know what to do. When he has the children, I'm terrified. They have been in the hospital because he didn't keep them safe. He always screams at them and tells them "your mother is a dumb sl**" amongst other things.
Suggestions on Family Law? Help? :'(