NSW Divorce - Presence of Father at Baby's Delivery?

Hello all,

I’m hoping someone can assist me.

This is my first pregnancy, and my husband and I have been having numerous issues. After 6 years of marriage, we have come to the conclusion that divorce is best. He is happy to walk out.

My husband has not been supportive of me during my pregnancy, and I have been dealing with various health issues by myself.

I am due to give birth shortly and do not wish for him to be in the delivery room.

Please help. What Is the legal position on this?

Appreciate your help.

 

Thank you so much Sammy, I thought the same but had doubts. I want to ensure that Im prepared for anything he may throw back at me as a response.

 

Thank you SamanthaJay.

 

Hi Sammy. Indeed - here we have again the legal/moral dilemma that plagues family cases.

I have always seen myself to be a fair, well balanced and good-natured individual who tries to do the right thing. However, I am most deeply hurt, angry and saddened - and though I want to do the right by my children (I'm expecting twins), in my head I do not believe my husband should share the joyous moment, after he has effectively hurt me during what should be one of the joyous times of our life.

The road has been long and rocky, most of which I have endured by myself. Does this man “deserve” to so proudly stand beside me when he has caused nothing but heartache? I don't know if I am wrong to think No.

 

Thank you very much Rob. After delivery, I anticipate I will be recuperating in the maternity area for a period. I don't know if he can come into this area freely to see the babies.

I don't wish to be spiteful or nasty and stop him from seeing his children. I just don't want him to aggravate me and affect my health/well being.