Hi, My ex girlfriend says we had a baby girl, I am overseas and she doesn't want me to have the baby, but she is either with the baby, she said she left the baby with her mother in China. I want to have the guardianship of the babe as she is a terrible mother. She already has a boy and she also left her boy with her mother in China, so what can I do about it? I have to find her and I want the custody of children. Should I go to the police? As the father, what are my rights? How hard is to get custody of the baby considering her mom is not even trying to look after her? Considering more, that she sabotaged the condom to get pregnant so I would keep the relationship.. Thanks in advance!