Family court stamped settlement orders 10/2013, we settled 12/2013.
In the property settlement orders, a few agreements were made regarding, and safeguarding (I thought) the 3 children of the marriage (just because the parents were divorcing it was viewed things shouldn't change for the children re decisions we would have made had we stayed together). Agreements were put into place to save future headache, disagreements and settlement (he is hard to deal with at the best of times and doesn't make life easy).
Agreed, in court stamped orders, as ex owed me unpaid child support that he would pay children's school fees until end grade 12. Agreed, both parents would continue to pay kids scholarship fund payments quarterly.
Prior to my eldest child return to school beginning of this year, the very day prior I had to go purchase and pay for his stationery as the ex had not attempted to do so even though court stamped orders state he is responsible for children's school costs. $442 still owed to me but I advised the ex to keep the money as my share of payment of the next scholarship fund fees (this account is mailed to ex husbands address).
7 weeks ago I rang scholarship fund as eldest turns 18 soon, only to be told that they had lapsed all 3 children's policies as quarterly bill and reminders were ignored. These policies remain in my ex and my name on behalf of our children, commenced when children were 6months old or under. I'm furious he could do such a thing to his children especially when eldest needs what this fund provides for as of next year. I told the fund I was upset they hadn't even tried to contact myself as a half policy owner (they replied they can only mail to one address). However, they agreed to reinstate in full if I paid all the policies out in full.
Hence I have a $3,900 bill to pay to reinstate and if I don't i never get the chance again. How easy was it to pay $200 each every quarter! Now my kids and I have lived off the smell of an oily rag for me to pay this bill. I have sent ex a letter requesting his share of this bill but I'm not holding my breath
He has contravened the court stamped orders twice. Family court said it is contravening a court order and sent me forms to complete to have yet anther court date set ... Omg the stress of it all. Court again?? And what can they do to him for contravening the order?? Any advice would be appreciated. I'm so over courts (no offence).
In the property settlement orders, a few agreements were made regarding, and safeguarding (I thought) the 3 children of the marriage (just because the parents were divorcing it was viewed things shouldn't change for the children re decisions we would have made had we stayed together). Agreements were put into place to save future headache, disagreements and settlement (he is hard to deal with at the best of times and doesn't make life easy).
Agreed, in court stamped orders, as ex owed me unpaid child support that he would pay children's school fees until end grade 12. Agreed, both parents would continue to pay kids scholarship fund payments quarterly.
Prior to my eldest child return to school beginning of this year, the very day prior I had to go purchase and pay for his stationery as the ex had not attempted to do so even though court stamped orders state he is responsible for children's school costs. $442 still owed to me but I advised the ex to keep the money as my share of payment of the next scholarship fund fees (this account is mailed to ex husbands address).
7 weeks ago I rang scholarship fund as eldest turns 18 soon, only to be told that they had lapsed all 3 children's policies as quarterly bill and reminders were ignored. These policies remain in my ex and my name on behalf of our children, commenced when children were 6months old or under. I'm furious he could do such a thing to his children especially when eldest needs what this fund provides for as of next year. I told the fund I was upset they hadn't even tried to contact myself as a half policy owner (they replied they can only mail to one address). However, they agreed to reinstate in full if I paid all the policies out in full.
Hence I have a $3,900 bill to pay to reinstate and if I don't i never get the chance again. How easy was it to pay $200 each every quarter! Now my kids and I have lived off the smell of an oily rag for me to pay this bill. I have sent ex a letter requesting his share of this bill but I'm not holding my breath
He has contravened the court stamped orders twice. Family court said it is contravening a court order and sent me forms to complete to have yet anther court date set ... Omg the stress of it all. Court again?? And what can they do to him for contravening the order?? Any advice would be appreciated. I'm so over courts (no offence).
