Hi Sammy - went to court on Friday to apply for leave to apply for a variation of the intervention order and the magistrate gave me a good hearing and granted leave. I hope I have the same one when I return on Sept 3, because he seems very reasonable. The ex will get a shock when police knock on her door with a summons.hhmm, stay calm. Do nothing IF you get that sort of offer, then thing get interersting. Mum wants youngest 85% of the time... But that doesn't mean that is what the kid wants.
Yep, about the best advice you can get in family law issues is: be in it for the long haul, don't get too worked up about short term issues (unless they will create a long term issue if they aren't knocked on the head immediately). In the long run, short term things don't matter too much. What matters is your relationship with your kids. Celebrate it. Preserve it. Nurture it. In the long run, everything else is mostly noise.STay calm - Be in this sucker for the long haul.