Briefly, 4yo currently ordered by Court to spend 2 nights with father every second weekend. Hysterical at changeover to the point of being physically sick. Order also allows parents to call child daily whilst child is not in their care. Mother calls once fortnightly and keeps it brief (and is told she is overbearing) father has never called in 3 years nor has he ever made up time for missed access visits. Child anxious every fortnight. What are the consequences if child is not handed over? Mother happy to try one overnight visit instead of two nights. Mother has requested family counselling, father refuses. Can mother withhold child until family counselling/family report. Absolutely no physical abuse but father tells child that his mother and grandparents are really horrible etc. which adds to child's anxiety.
