I think turning down the opportunity to see the kids is likely to cause more harm than good. Not hugely important but I would say that you should take any opportunity to see the kids. The longer they are away or not seeing the non resident parent the more cautious the court is sometimes due to disrupting primary carer relationship.
She has an obligation to tell you where she is and you have the remedy to get her to return the kids to their previous location if it impacts the dad having a meaningful relationship with the kids. If she has moved close by shouldn't be an issue. there are ways to force her to disclose where she is living.
She has an obligation to tell you where she is and you have the remedy to get her to return the kids to their previous location if it impacts the dad having a meaningful relationship with the kids. If she has moved close by shouldn't be an issue. there are ways to force her to disclose where she is living.