I have been separated from my wife for 7 months after 14 years of marriage. We have three children aged 1, 7 and 9. I only have them every second weekend and one afternoon each week (which I am not happy about). I have also sold the family home and the money is now in trust ($95000). My wife's superannuation is $150000 and mine is $85000. I believe salary sacrifice was possibly going on without my knowledge but I am not certain. During this time, an inheritance is now involved for an amount she has not told me. I believe maybe $20k to $150k. I have received consent orders from her lawyer where we split everything halfway but keep our own superannuation. No inheritance mentioned. Is it worth not agreeing to these orders to get a better share of the property settlement and superannuation due to this inheritance? What would be my chances of having more overnights with my children, or even one extra night on the other weekend? Thank you.