yup more detail needed.
But - if the mum isn't following the order and you're not wanting the order enforced, well why go to court just to have the order removed?
So by way of example my kids live with me, they're meant to spend time with mum during allocated times as per the court orders. So leading up to a scheduled visit I send an email to confirm. She sometimes sends an email back stating she is too busy, so she doesn't see the kids. I shrug my shoulders and keep going. So why would I bother taking this to court? waste of time money and emotional stress.