Hi,
I left my ex in Sept 2014 because he assaulted our son and after lots of verbal and emotional abuse. I have provided to the courts 4 separate reports showing contact with his father was and is still severely affecting the child, yet because he did a parenting course and anger management course, he still gets to see my son.
The teachers have written a statement advising of his developmental delays and his speech therapist plus his clinical psychologist but the judge just wants to hear that the dad is getting to see his son and doesn't care.
I have Legal Aid but my lawyer just keeps telling me that I have to give him more contact and after seeing the clinical psychologist for over 18 months, have been told to take him to a new one as my ex and I used to see her in the past and my ex is saying I'm making it all up.
I have not got the money for a new psychologist and it took months before my son ever said anything to her. She would get both me and my son's Kindy teachers to complete questionnaires and have appointments with my son before she wrote her reports but it just doesn't feel like anyone cares that this effects him every day.
I am home alone with my boy when he cries or has nightmares. Others see him shaking and his erratic behaviours but don't know why. I feel like I'm failing him because I can't cut off the visits to allow him to recover and because I have a interim order I have to make him go to the visits.
I left my ex in Sept 2014 because he assaulted our son and after lots of verbal and emotional abuse. I have provided to the courts 4 separate reports showing contact with his father was and is still severely affecting the child, yet because he did a parenting course and anger management course, he still gets to see my son.
The teachers have written a statement advising of his developmental delays and his speech therapist plus his clinical psychologist but the judge just wants to hear that the dad is getting to see his son and doesn't care.
I have Legal Aid but my lawyer just keeps telling me that I have to give him more contact and after seeing the clinical psychologist for over 18 months, have been told to take him to a new one as my ex and I used to see her in the past and my ex is saying I'm making it all up.
I have not got the money for a new psychologist and it took months before my son ever said anything to her. She would get both me and my son's Kindy teachers to complete questionnaires and have appointments with my son before she wrote her reports but it just doesn't feel like anyone cares that this effects him every day.
I am home alone with my boy when he cries or has nightmares. Others see him shaking and his erratic behaviours but don't know why. I feel like I'm failing him because I can't cut off the visits to allow him to recover and because I have a interim order I have to make him go to the visits.