Order 3 is ”live with”. In general unless it is a true 50/50 situation, a child lives with one parent and spends time with the other. That is the wording that is used.
So I think your order needs to have a live with and spend no time with the mother for a period of x months.
then you need to have an order of what happens after that. or You have an order that is live with and spend no time with the mother until further order by the court.
I don’t know how long you would expect to have until a final hearing, but I imagine that you would look to have an order that is live with for 6 months, spending no time with the mother, then for 3 months, spend one or two days every second weekend, but not overnight, then one night every second weekend, which should take you to 12 months, and you could expect to be in court by then.
given the situation with the school and the number of the mothers family members that are there, I'd also be looking at changing schools if you are given parental responsibility. Maybe you could have an order that is something like ‘upon consultation with a treating psychologist, the father be at liberty to change the school that the child attends, if he deems it to be in the child’s best interest.
In which cawe your order needs to allow for whichever school the child attends, not just XXX school.
So I think your order needs to have a live with and spend no time with the mother for a period of x months.
then you need to have an order of what happens after that. or You have an order that is live with and spend no time with the mother until further order by the court.
I don’t know how long you would expect to have until a final hearing, but I imagine that you would look to have an order that is live with for 6 months, spending no time with the mother, then for 3 months, spend one or two days every second weekend, but not overnight, then one night every second weekend, which should take you to 12 months, and you could expect to be in court by then.
given the situation with the school and the number of the mothers family members that are there, I'd also be looking at changing schools if you are given parental responsibility. Maybe you could have an order that is something like ‘upon consultation with a treating psychologist, the father be at liberty to change the school that the child attends, if he deems it to be in the child’s best interest.
In which cawe your order needs to allow for whichever school the child attends, not just XXX school.