same - look your best bet is a letter from a solicitor outlining your proposed property settlement... IF she agrees then you can offer to have that written up as consent orders and apply to the court for approval.... IF the ex agrees....
I'm not a big fan of mediation... People say stuff, but can remember even with notes taken... So in my experience I had one instance where the ex had a legal aid solicitor for free... I had a private solicitor... The day cost me about $5000... Everything was sorted, all agreed. Happy days.... But then the ex changed her mind, dithered etc etc. It was a waste of time....