My 2 stepdaughters (5 & 7) come home from visiting their dad over tired, hungry, matty and dirty hair, smelly (urine), red raw vag*nas and bottoms. The girls say they haven't washed, for up to 5 days at a time, and are too scared to as when they attempt to wash the private areas they get told not to touch and to go to the toilet. The eldest stepbrother has been a victim of sexual abuse, the 3rd oldest step sister has been excluded from schools and frequent suspension from schools for violence and the stepmother has disclosed that the girl (14) smokes Marijuana. My partner has lodged a form with Child Protection Services but has been advised unless they are in immediate danger, they can't help. The half sister has frequent hospital visit for urinary tract infections. We understand this is a parenting issue, but what can we do to protect the girls from more harm? They are constantly on medication for illnesses when they return. We just get them happy and well, then they go to him and come back sick again. Their father has quit his job and has stated he will now have 50/50 custody of children.