Hi friends,
I have applied for parenting order (interim and final orders) in Family Court of Australia and first court date is 21 April. My ex wife is not allowing me to meet my daughter or sending her to spend time with me since 16/02/2020. Prior to this I was having my daughter for 2 days a week (Friday morning till Sunday morning). Everyday I send her SMS to resolve the issues and allow me and my daughter to meet and I get muted response. I miss my daughter and I feel the court process will take long and I will lose time with my daughter.
Now my question is can I apply for recovery orders and will that help me get my daughter coming home as per previous arrangement till court looks into parenting order? What are some of the things I need to keep in mind when preparing affidavit etc. and if anyone can guide/explain the process I will appreciate it a lot.
I am seeking equal time order (50%) as part of parenting orders.
I daily speak to my daughter on phone and this is the only communication I have with her.
Please help me friends.
Thank you,
Adithya
How long did the previous 2 days a week last go for prior to withholding?
And what reasons have been given?
One suggestion I can make early is that if it was going for awhile, maybe re think 50/50.
Until you're child is old enough to say otherwise, I can't quite remember that age where a court will consider that, I'm sure it's older though..... Precident and time would have been set, making it very hard.
Maybe try pick up from school Friday and drop back to school Monday weekly.
Other factors for 50/50 are:
Parents ability to communicate
Travel distance between homes
Flexibility etc....
Plus this is only an opinion and based of advice and what I've seen, I don't believe judges really like this idea.
Unless you could negotiate this with you're ex, it will be nigh on impossible to get a judge to award that without 100% perfect scenarios.
Also if this has gone on for awhile in terms of 2 days a week, as hard as it is, I wouldn't say that as an option to the family assessor.
A family assessor will be there to advise the best course of action for the child.
And basically it's a short interview, whatever impression they get of he seems like they have the better plans wins.
If you go in 50/50... Wanting to change everything and the mother goes in saying a weekend per fortnight, and there's no history the two of you can do that.... The assessor will go with the mother.
Being reasonable, slightly increasing you're time will make you're life a lot easier in the long run
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