My current partners ex wife organized mediation for herself, didnt tell him that she was organizing this, we just recieved a phone call asking when he would like to book in with the ex's chosen mediation company. and expects us to go along with it into relation of their 4 children. It is $220 per hour, which we cannot afford. We have looked into Centacare and its $35 per hour..but she has declined this. She is on great money while he is an apprentice, and merely cannot afford her chosen mediation, which has given us a time frame cut off point. When she left him they agreed to do 1 week off 1 week on looking after children, and all of a sudden wants mediation which she blind sighted him without disscussing it prior to her setting up mediation, he is willing to do mediation just not with her desired company? Not sure how to sort this out?