Hello, I have read a bit about IVO advice on here but require some more clarity on some issues I am facing. I left a very long marriage a few months ago leaving 4 children behind. My ex did not allow me to have contact with my children. My name is also on the mortgage and no orders are in place. I recently arranged for mediation through relationships Australia and advised my ex via text. I was then sent a threatening text message from my ex saying she will now get an IVO out against me. I thought this was a joke. I have a job whereby I manage services for children. I then receive a call less than a week later from police and I am served with a full IVO preventing contact with the children and my ex. Court hearing in 3 months. Allegations on the IVO state physical and emotional abuse to the children and emotional and sexual abuse towards the ex over the course of the marriage. I am innocent on all grounds. I now cannot coach their sporting teams or be involved in their clubs. I need to notify my work and risk losing my job as I work with kids. 20 years of exemplary work with kids possibly down the drain. I can not communicate at all with my children nor post photos of them on social media. All of this because I wanted to see my kids and settle on the house. All information on the IVO was submitted online to the court. No other evidence was provided apart from a statement. The allegations were quite serious and disgusting to be truthful. I don’t want contact with my ex as I left and organised my own place , I just wanted mediation. No police involvement or prior family violence allegations made in the past at all. Should I lodge a counter IVO as I feel she is trying to bait me?