My de facto partner and i have just bought a house in both names and 100% borrowed. He has a wife back in tbe philippines he hasnt seen for over twenty years, a failed annulment case took them to res judicata. We have been together ten years, lived together seven and have three children. He is now an aussie citizen and can file for divorce. We stupidly filed for divorce not thinking she would be entitled to our house. We feel our only option it to withdraw the divorce applcation and guess never marry which breaks both our hearts. Please help us to know what to do before we lose our family home.