I am needing some help with a family law matter. I am going through a very bitter separation with my ex. In January 2015 he moved out of the family home with my children to his mother's home without my consent while I was in hospital having a back operation. He allows me to see my children 12% per week. Monday from 3 - 7pm, Tuesday from 3 - 7pm and on Sunday from 11am to 5pm. I have been the primary carer for the children. I am also a carer for my 12 year old son who is diagnosed with Autism. I am concerned about my children in his care. My ex dictates to me and is very controlling and makes up rules on a whim even though there are no court orders in place. I am not eligible for Legal Aid and I am unemployed so unable to afford a solicitor. I also need help on protecting the family home from being sold. He has cut off all financial assistance with debts so I am struggling financially Please help I am desperate to get my children back.