Hello, We have family Court orders in place. We have a parent who is saying they " cannot wait till the children are of age to " choose" not to come to our place. This in fact won't be the case as they love to come to our place. I was under the impression this is at 12/13 years of age. Is this such a thing? We have court orders until the children are 18. Does she need to go to court to get proof and amend the orders, or can she stop them visiting and we then have to go to court. The problem is, she will tell the children one thing and tell us something different. The only way we know this is they tell us when they see us, BUT if she is saying " daddy isn't coming" to them and telling us " they don't want to come" then there is no communication between father and sons and she is withholding. What avenues can we take?