I have recently received interim orders for custody of children, allowing the children to legally live with me for 8 nights. My ex's lawyers have just issued me with a letter stating he wants property settlement as well, or he will take me to family court again. I feel he is intimidating me and he never owned or contributed to any of the properties during the 4 years we were married. I do not have a lawyer now. Do I need a lawyer or should I try and mediation through the ICL? He is not working and has $400,000 in cash but thinks I will be forced to pay him future needs.