Hello, everyone, only new here & simply put my whole life has changed due to being charged with Indecent Treatment of Child
Criminal Code 210 (1)(a)&(3)&(4)
Basically, the 1st charge is, I said to my stepdaughter who is 11 (12 in June) I'm going to put my ***** into your ***** on the 31/12/2016
The 2nd Charge of the same criminal code said my offence was supposed to have happened around June 2015 & the offence was that I touched her ******** when her mother went to Brisbane to pick up her new car.
Now before I say anything I am totally innocent of all charges, I will defend these charges till the day I die.
Right, I have got a lawyer & he has pointed a lot of things out that certainly bring to light a lot of things stated & that has occurred in around these incidents. I will also state right now my 3 biological children have been removed from my custody till I am, basically, found not guilty. Then there will be a fight to get them back because said child was under my care when the children were removed. If the said child at the centre of the allegations was not in my care / guardianship the children would have remained in my care.
The lawyer 1st asked, "do you notice anything about the dates the alleged incidents occurred?"
I said, "no, nothing at all."
He then said they stand out because they are specific times. Without knowing all the story, so you won't know what I mean. The girl's mother goes to the Gold Coast every 3-4 weeks to see family and/or friends. Since she has gotten her drivers licence in January 2015, it would be about 15 times. Since she got her car, about 8 times.
2nd thing about the alleged date is that the mum always goes for drinks, maybe every weekend and can spend the whole weekend away from the 5 kids & me, (3 kids - 2, 4 & 5 are mine, the other 2, 7 & 11 are not), and even during the week, almost every weekend, she would go for drinks.
The lawyer turned around as said well they are easy times to claim said incidences happened because the mum goes to the Gold Coast (we live 4 hours away) a lot & also goes drinking almost every weekend. These 2 stand out because, otherwise, other weekends are just weekends.
Now I need to be totally honest & totally upfront & I won't lie about anything I am about to say. Said girl has a history of massive tantrums, destroying her room, running away from home, lying to the point we can watch her do something & she will still lie. A lot of her lies has gotten her sisters & brother in trouble.
At one point, she got someone in trouble at her school through lies, when I emailed the school about something important. Now her mum & Miss 7 live about 2km away basically down the road on the same road as I do. While they use to spend 90% of their time with me & 3 kids, they, at times if mum & I were having issues, would spend time at their house.
Once when she ran away from home, she jumped out the 1st story of the house & she actually got lost. The police were called around 4pm & a reported sighting was called through at around 5:30. She finally ended up at my house around 6:30. It had been dark and had also happened after the alleged incident in or around June, when mum went and got her new car.
I called the police as a report had been made, they came around about 10 minutes later, they were here for about 30 mins. We both spoke to the girl in question & I even pleaded with her if anyone was touching her, making her feel awkward in any way, being touched, being bullied at school. As to her behaviour, I told her that it was the time to say it in front of the police, no matter who the person is.
The police even said the same thing, I said, "Look, ****** I will go make coffee" & took the 3 kids into the kitchen so she could speak to the police alone, came back to nothing, so I fed the girl & put 4 kids to bed (it had not been the 1st time she had run away and ended up at my place). Now the lawyer said he will get the said police report, but just looking at the evidence, it didn't seem to add up to me.
I will also go on record of saying said girl is going through puberty & is very emotional, very head strong, very often she would bath with my youngest till I put a stop to it a few months ago. I said, "you're growing boobs & stuff & the kids don't need to see it & you need your privacy."
She was always never shy, so she started when I rounded the children up for bath time, she would get naked & put a towel around her & sit in the loungeroom. In the end, I asked her not to get ready for a bath till it was her actual bath time as she was getting older, because when Miss 7's dad would come to pick her up every 2nd weekend, Miss 11 would run to the door, with just the towel so I put a stop to it.
Now with the 1st charge, I will tell the little thing that happened a few weeks ago, I would say, where she would sleep where I keep all my DVD's as there is no other place for them in a wardrobe. She was in there as she keeps some cloths in there & when I walked in she had the only adult DVD I own, I actually thought I put it in the top draw in my room, but she was looking at it, she smiled & she said, "that's sex."
I said, "Yesm do you know what sex is?"
She smirked & said, "sort of."
I said that's when I put my ***** into your ***** (before you all say it, yes, I know, I worded it all wrong, I know) & said you should not be looking at it anyways in a real demeaning voice & she got in trouble for it & stormed off to her bed. I said, "Fine, good night."
She screamed at me as she always does when she is in trouble stating "I want to go home, I hate you, I hate being here & never want to come back."
Now the 2nd incident that I can vaguely recall is many months ago, with my youngest. I was sitting on the bathroom floor to take her nappy off and undress her for her bath. She was always 1st, Miss 11 at that stage was bathing with Miss 2 as she well washed her. From memory, she always got undressed & stood almost on top of me, a few times she checks out her under arms for the sign of hair.
Her mum has checked it too at times. This time, she asked & I looked up & said, "no, don't be silly," then she was pulling / playing with her ******** & asked the same question, "Do I have any hair starting to grow, basically on top of me." I pushed her away & went off my head & she had yet another tantrum & stormed off into her room. She tore the room apart as always. Once I got my youngest out & Mr 4 & Miss 5 were in the bath, I went to Miss 11 & said: "once you clean up your room, come out and say sorry, get a drink & off to bed you go."
These 2 instances correlate with said accusations & charges under criminal law.
Criminal Code 210 (1)(a)&(3)&(4)
Basically, the 1st charge is, I said to my stepdaughter who is 11 (12 in June) I'm going to put my ***** into your ***** on the 31/12/2016
The 2nd Charge of the same criminal code said my offence was supposed to have happened around June 2015 & the offence was that I touched her ******** when her mother went to Brisbane to pick up her new car.
Now before I say anything I am totally innocent of all charges, I will defend these charges till the day I die.
Right, I have got a lawyer & he has pointed a lot of things out that certainly bring to light a lot of things stated & that has occurred in around these incidents. I will also state right now my 3 biological children have been removed from my custody till I am, basically, found not guilty. Then there will be a fight to get them back because said child was under my care when the children were removed. If the said child at the centre of the allegations was not in my care / guardianship the children would have remained in my care.
The lawyer 1st asked, "do you notice anything about the dates the alleged incidents occurred?"
I said, "no, nothing at all."
He then said they stand out because they are specific times. Without knowing all the story, so you won't know what I mean. The girl's mother goes to the Gold Coast every 3-4 weeks to see family and/or friends. Since she has gotten her drivers licence in January 2015, it would be about 15 times. Since she got her car, about 8 times.
2nd thing about the alleged date is that the mum always goes for drinks, maybe every weekend and can spend the whole weekend away from the 5 kids & me, (3 kids - 2, 4 & 5 are mine, the other 2, 7 & 11 are not), and even during the week, almost every weekend, she would go for drinks.
The lawyer turned around as said well they are easy times to claim said incidences happened because the mum goes to the Gold Coast (we live 4 hours away) a lot & also goes drinking almost every weekend. These 2 stand out because, otherwise, other weekends are just weekends.
Now I need to be totally honest & totally upfront & I won't lie about anything I am about to say. Said girl has a history of massive tantrums, destroying her room, running away from home, lying to the point we can watch her do something & she will still lie. A lot of her lies has gotten her sisters & brother in trouble.
At one point, she got someone in trouble at her school through lies, when I emailed the school about something important. Now her mum & Miss 7 live about 2km away basically down the road on the same road as I do. While they use to spend 90% of their time with me & 3 kids, they, at times if mum & I were having issues, would spend time at their house.
Once when she ran away from home, she jumped out the 1st story of the house & she actually got lost. The police were called around 4pm & a reported sighting was called through at around 5:30. She finally ended up at my house around 6:30. It had been dark and had also happened after the alleged incident in or around June, when mum went and got her new car.
I called the police as a report had been made, they came around about 10 minutes later, they were here for about 30 mins. We both spoke to the girl in question & I even pleaded with her if anyone was touching her, making her feel awkward in any way, being touched, being bullied at school. As to her behaviour, I told her that it was the time to say it in front of the police, no matter who the person is.
The police even said the same thing, I said, "Look, ****** I will go make coffee" & took the 3 kids into the kitchen so she could speak to the police alone, came back to nothing, so I fed the girl & put 4 kids to bed (it had not been the 1st time she had run away and ended up at my place). Now the lawyer said he will get the said police report, but just looking at the evidence, it didn't seem to add up to me.
I will also go on record of saying said girl is going through puberty & is very emotional, very head strong, very often she would bath with my youngest till I put a stop to it a few months ago. I said, "you're growing boobs & stuff & the kids don't need to see it & you need your privacy."
She was always never shy, so she started when I rounded the children up for bath time, she would get naked & put a towel around her & sit in the loungeroom. In the end, I asked her not to get ready for a bath till it was her actual bath time as she was getting older, because when Miss 7's dad would come to pick her up every 2nd weekend, Miss 11 would run to the door, with just the towel so I put a stop to it.
Now with the 1st charge, I will tell the little thing that happened a few weeks ago, I would say, where she would sleep where I keep all my DVD's as there is no other place for them in a wardrobe. She was in there as she keeps some cloths in there & when I walked in she had the only adult DVD I own, I actually thought I put it in the top draw in my room, but she was looking at it, she smiled & she said, "that's sex."
I said, "Yesm do you know what sex is?"
She smirked & said, "sort of."
I said that's when I put my ***** into your ***** (before you all say it, yes, I know, I worded it all wrong, I know) & said you should not be looking at it anyways in a real demeaning voice & she got in trouble for it & stormed off to her bed. I said, "Fine, good night."
She screamed at me as she always does when she is in trouble stating "I want to go home, I hate you, I hate being here & never want to come back."
Now the 2nd incident that I can vaguely recall is many months ago, with my youngest. I was sitting on the bathroom floor to take her nappy off and undress her for her bath. She was always 1st, Miss 11 at that stage was bathing with Miss 2 as she well washed her. From memory, she always got undressed & stood almost on top of me, a few times she checks out her under arms for the sign of hair.
Her mum has checked it too at times. This time, she asked & I looked up & said, "no, don't be silly," then she was pulling / playing with her ******** & asked the same question, "Do I have any hair starting to grow, basically on top of me." I pushed her away & went off my head & she had yet another tantrum & stormed off into her room. She tore the room apart as always. Once I got my youngest out & Mr 4 & Miss 5 were in the bath, I went to Miss 11 & said: "once you clean up your room, come out and say sorry, get a drink & off to bed you go."
These 2 instances correlate with said accusations & charges under criminal law.