Hi there, I’m just after any information if anyone can assist, please. I’ve just outlined point note facts below as it is pretty simple. I'm a single mum whose ex left 13 years ago My son who is now 14 and 6 moths has always lived with me since my ex left My son has spent 6 pm Friday – 4 pm Sunday every 2nd weekend with his dad, along with half of school holidays Since the separation, the ex-moved 2.5 hours away He (or his brothers who live about 40 minutes away) pick our son up on a Friday at 6 pm. I do the 5-hour return trip every fortnight on Sunday to collect him. Son has recently shown interest in a sport outside of school and we asked his dad if it was ok that he did it as games would be on a Friday or Saturday night – he agreed The season hasn’t even started yet and his dad has said (to our son, not to me) that he will just get him on Saturday at some point – even though Court Order states Friday 6 pm access Am I breaching the family court orders if my son doesn’t go on a Saturday when it’s convenient for my ex if it isn’t convenient for plans that I have made in advance (why should I change my arrangements to suit my ex?) and I’m not being selfish, I would and have done anything and everything for our son with no support from his dad, however, I don’t believe I need to work around my ex’s timetable when there are family court orders in place that has been consistent for the past 13 years. I would have thought his dad should still pick him up on a Friday night and perhaps watch him play basketball given this is something our son was quite keen to do and wants to continue with. In addition to this, he owns a business, claims he earns less than the self-support amount which is not true and doesn’t pay a cent of child support – which I don’t mind. It’s not the money that concerns me, it’s the principal in taking responsibility for your son and taking an interest in this life. It’s a constant battle and is suddenly getting worse. Also, just any thoughts on what actually happens with the court orders when our son obtains a job and things have to change. Do you need to get it redone then or does it just become kind of void? Any thoughts, ideas, experiences, opinions are welcomed. Thank you so much.