Wanting to know my legal obligations about level of communication and informing ex about kids' schooling, activities etc. We have court orders, equal shared responsibility, kids spend 5 nights incl. school nights with dad, communication via SMS/email only. Am I supposed to inform their dad about what's discussed at every school meeting I attend? With school starting, he's opted out of meetings/events coming up, claiming it's easier on the kids if I go and as he wont be there, he's asked I keep him posted on any info he'll miss out on. Of course if something came up specific to our children I would let him know, but would I be breaching orders if I attended and didn't report back? I think I've been pretty good at informing him of major long term issues so far, I have included him on the school's database to receive all notices, but surely if he wants to know what's discussed at parent meetings, events etc, he should either organise to also attend or contact the school/parent rep directly? What do I respond to the ex as I don't want to set a precedent by agreeing nor do I want to be in breach. Thanks in advance for replies.