Thanks Sammy01,
Yes I document daily in a diary and have in the past written to the mother via email (we only communicate in writing) I have never had a response from her of my concerns and the behaviour has not noticeably slowed.
Yes I have final orders to which are not being followed, we had a court ordered mediation last week and are back to court in 10 months....(big waiting list).... as the mother continues to refuse the extra time allowed in the orders.
My son didnt ask me where tampons go. He knew every detail of what, where and why. He just blurted the whole lot out in front of me and my partner without any prompt apart from changing strings on a guitar......... And at 6yo, that sickened me.
That is only one example and a mild one at that of what he shares.
I understand everyones advice and will continue to document.
Vanda