NSW No contact

[El1234]

He even lied in the affidavit about mediation that there was no agreement when there clearly was but no signed it cause the chick didn't have a computer

 

[Atticus]

Even though he hasn't made contact for 3 months and has never made an effort

Yes .... If what you were offering & agreed to via mediation was okay then, why not now ... The court won't care if he has been away for several months, they will just be wanting to put in place orders to have the kids rights to a relationship with both parents

 

[Atticus]

He even lied in the affidavit about mediation that there was no agreement when there clearly was but no signed it cause the chick didn't have a computer

An agreement, in order to meet the legal definition has to be signed by both parents & dated

 

[El1234]

So I can use the mediation plan as evidence we agreed on things even though it wasn't signed

 

[Atticus]

So I can use the mediation plan as evidence we agreed on things even though it wasn't signed

Yes ..... To be honest, it doesn't sound like he is doing himself any favours, & the threat to seek orders is probably just that.. Just offer what you agreed to & see how that goes ... If he agrees, sigh & date a formal agreement ... If he still wants to take it to court, it's his money, & his lost time

 

[El1234]

Ok perfect so basically if he agrees to do the mediation plan then get it formal and work from there

 

[Atticus]

That's what I would be doing as a first step. See what he says

 

[El1234]

Ok thanks 😊

 

[Atticus]

For your interest... Link below to a parenting plan 'check list' .... Basically things that you may want to think about that should be included ..

Parenting Plan Checklist — Relationships Australia

 

[El1234]

Thank you much appreciated 😊