I have been separated since 8/4/15, with a 3-year-old daughter (6/7/12). There is no custody of children agreement under family law in place since the separation, and I live a 3.5 hours drive from father. The father wants the daughter at his residence for 5- 7 days and he has a sleep disorder (idiopathic hypersomia). He is on medication to hold drivers licence! Is 5-7 days reasonable visitation rights or too long for a 3 yr old, and who is responsible for costs to get her there?