My ex wants custody of our 6 year old and 2.5 year old because he thinks the kids have more routine and structure at his place. We have had a great agreement so far, he gets kids Thursday to Sunday.
I am single parenting and kids are always fed and have their own routine at mine the only thing I struggle with is my 6 year old can Be difficult to manage and has been for both of us but for me it’s a bit more of a struggle because I am on my own but he has a partner who helps him. He thinks when the kids are sick that I don’t take them to the doctors or just because my daughter gets eczema that I’m not caring for them properly, I take my kids doctors whenever needed and can prove this if it went we to court, my house is clean kids are fed and are well taken care of so I don’t even know why he thinks this anyway, he basically pumps my 6 year old for information then turns everything around to make it look like I’m a s**t mum. Just for one example my brother or sister babysat the kids while I worked on maybe 3 or 4 different occasions and a couple times he spent at my mums on a Sunday and she took him to school in the morning, and he seems to have a problem with that. He thinks he should get custody but works almost 6 days a week and his girlfriend babysits the kids as well as their own new baby, and thinks it’s ok for her to have to drive my son to school everyday and they put my daughter in daycare 2 days of the week, yet I’m at home and this is what I do everyday because obviously they live with me. There is so much more to the story but too long to get into, my questions is would he be successful in getting primary care in court?
I am single parenting and kids are always fed and have their own routine at mine the only thing I struggle with is my 6 year old can Be difficult to manage and has been for both of us but for me it’s a bit more of a struggle because I am on my own but he has a partner who helps him. He thinks when the kids are sick that I don’t take them to the doctors or just because my daughter gets eczema that I’m not caring for them properly, I take my kids doctors whenever needed and can prove this if it went we to court, my house is clean kids are fed and are well taken care of so I don’t even know why he thinks this anyway, he basically pumps my 6 year old for information then turns everything around to make it look like I’m a s**t mum. Just for one example my brother or sister babysat the kids while I worked on maybe 3 or 4 different occasions and a couple times he spent at my mums on a Sunday and she took him to school in the morning, and he seems to have a problem with that. He thinks he should get custody but works almost 6 days a week and his girlfriend babysits the kids as well as their own new baby, and thinks it’s ok for her to have to drive my son to school everyday and they put my daughter in daycare 2 days of the week, yet I’m at home and this is what I do everyday because obviously they live with me. There is so much more to the story but too long to get into, my questions is would he be successful in getting primary care in court?