Interim orders ( family court orders) were made in August, the time was then increased in September. The child was 14-months-old at the time the first interim orders were made. Now 3 months later she has suffered serve separation anxiety and aggression. Both myself and her father attended my daughter's gp and a mental health plan and report was done as she wasn't coping and the doctor had fears for her well being. In family law court, the judge said it was completely outrageous we had entered her into a mental health plan and said that it was our fault she was like this. He never give me the opportunity to tell him I had a report as she's self harming herself. This behaviour was witnessed by the gp also. I want to help my child. I don't see how getting her help is hurting anyone or "outrageous" but I'm extremely scared to put in an appeal if I lose ( custody of children), cause quiet frankly, that judge scares the crap out of me.