Two Sundays ago, I had been drinking with my boyfriend and his family. I hadn’t drunk in a long while and the alcohol had really hit me quite quickly and I ended up pretty irresponsibly drunk.
We had made our way to my partner's dad's place. Where everyone continued to drink and have fun.
Something came up from the past (between my boyfriend and I) and he was telling me to shut up. (I refused to shut up as I really don’t like being told to shut up if I have something to say.
I also believe there’s a much nicer way to ask someone to “shut up”) and it escalated the situation and my boyfriend, his sister and I ended up arguing. I had said some nasty things and he told me he was leaving me. My boyfriend, his sister and her boyfriend then left to sit somewhere else after their dad told me that I was never to come to the house again. Afterwards, I hadn’t realised no one was around and was talking to myself. His dads girlfriend then popped her head around the corner and escalated the situation even more by telling me that no ones listening to my bull**** and no one cares about what I have to say.
This woman and I have had disputes in the past but they were never sorted out and it never involved any form of argument. So her and I then started arguing about all that. I was told to leave the house. That was all good and well and I was trying to find a lift because I couldn’t walk home (in a wheelchair and was using my prosthetic leg (which i haven’t got much balance on) I had people making comments to me and I was arguing back with them while I was leaning on the bench trying to find someone to come and get me out of there.
Before I knew it, my partners dad had my arms and was trying to drag me out of the house. I resisted. He had me that tight that he left bruises on my arms. All I remember was resisting and swinging because he just would not let me walk out on my own. (I’m not one to be violent).
Eventually I lost balance and fell and ended up on the ground. My ankle was broken and I knew it. I tried to tell people it was broken but no one believed me and continued to escalate the problem. I was laying in silence and pain. Then started yelling that they were all cruel and dogs because they wouldn’t help me. My partners dad then came up to me and grabbed my arms and physically dragged me with a broken ankle across the floor to the other end of the house where the front door was and left me there in pain for an hour while he drove to get my father to come and get me out of the house.
In the meantime, my boyfriend had fled the scene. He watched it all happen and did not help me once. His sister had hit me across the face with a bottle of milk and then all told me to shut up and left the room.
I need to know what is acceptable for my partner's dad in terms of removing me out of the house. Was this taken too far? I was willing to leave I was just securing a ride.
My boyfriend says I deserved every bit of what I got and he walked away the entire time it was happening. Is this true? Did I actually deserve what I got?
I’m very understanding as to where I went wrong. I was very apologetic the next day to my partner's sister for the horrible things I had said but not to his dad. His dad had blocked me from all communication. Which is fine. I would have done the same. But his dad's girlfriend insists on continuing the drama by calling me horrible names and flipping me off every time she sees me.
I’m fed up.
We had made our way to my partner's dad's place. Where everyone continued to drink and have fun.
Something came up from the past (between my boyfriend and I) and he was telling me to shut up. (I refused to shut up as I really don’t like being told to shut up if I have something to say.
I also believe there’s a much nicer way to ask someone to “shut up”) and it escalated the situation and my boyfriend, his sister and I ended up arguing. I had said some nasty things and he told me he was leaving me. My boyfriend, his sister and her boyfriend then left to sit somewhere else after their dad told me that I was never to come to the house again. Afterwards, I hadn’t realised no one was around and was talking to myself. His dads girlfriend then popped her head around the corner and escalated the situation even more by telling me that no ones listening to my bull**** and no one cares about what I have to say.
This woman and I have had disputes in the past but they were never sorted out and it never involved any form of argument. So her and I then started arguing about all that. I was told to leave the house. That was all good and well and I was trying to find a lift because I couldn’t walk home (in a wheelchair and was using my prosthetic leg (which i haven’t got much balance on) I had people making comments to me and I was arguing back with them while I was leaning on the bench trying to find someone to come and get me out of there.
Before I knew it, my partners dad had my arms and was trying to drag me out of the house. I resisted. He had me that tight that he left bruises on my arms. All I remember was resisting and swinging because he just would not let me walk out on my own. (I’m not one to be violent).
Eventually I lost balance and fell and ended up on the ground. My ankle was broken and I knew it. I tried to tell people it was broken but no one believed me and continued to escalate the problem. I was laying in silence and pain. Then started yelling that they were all cruel and dogs because they wouldn’t help me. My partners dad then came up to me and grabbed my arms and physically dragged me with a broken ankle across the floor to the other end of the house where the front door was and left me there in pain for an hour while he drove to get my father to come and get me out of the house.
In the meantime, my boyfriend had fled the scene. He watched it all happen and did not help me once. His sister had hit me across the face with a bottle of milk and then all told me to shut up and left the room.
I need to know what is acceptable for my partner's dad in terms of removing me out of the house. Was this taken too far? I was willing to leave I was just securing a ride.
My boyfriend says I deserved every bit of what I got and he walked away the entire time it was happening. Is this true? Did I actually deserve what I got?
I’m very understanding as to where I went wrong. I was very apologetic the next day to my partner's sister for the horrible things I had said but not to his dad. His dad had blocked me from all communication. Which is fine. I would have done the same. But his dad's girlfriend insists on continuing the drama by calling me horrible names and flipping me off every time she sees me.
I’m fed up.