My wife and I separated 2 years ago now and approximately 8-9 months after separation, I became extremely ill which required many, many months of hospitalisation and continuing treatment. Whilst I was incapacitated, my elder sister took control of the sale of our assets and property settlement of finances (which I lost out big time). Putting that aside, many items that I purchased purely for myself during our marriage i.e iPad, fishing gear, tools, bike, etc., have either been disposed or sold by my former wife. I am yet to clarify as she will not communicate with me. Is she allowed to sell, give away, or dispose of my personal items without my consent under Family Law?