It would seem clear to me that parenting orders be temporarily suspended for the isolation period.... Your gonna hate everything I write today... Oh well.
Mate at one point you said that the rule was a 5km radius from home... Comparing apples to pears. 5km radius when was when we were all in lockdown to prevent the spread and to prevent us getting Covid....
The lockdown you're now experiencing isnt applicable to the whole state. Grasping at straws?
So let me just answer according to your criteria above...
1. Legally? well short version - yup a technical breach.
(a) the respondent believed on reasonable grounds that the actions constituting the contravention were necessary to protect the health or safety of a person (including the respondent or the child)
"health and safety of A person". So, by breaching the ex has protected the safety of the little old lady you're child didn't walk past at Macca's because the kid needs to go to the toilet.
In short - there is no way in hell you want to fight this one in court. It is not about family law trumping lockdown rules. It is about whether or not a judge would accept the ex had reasonable grounds to breach the family court orders.. So the only real hang up is whether or not the 'respondent believed on reasonable grounds...'? Eering on the side of caution seems reasonable. It also seems reasonable to interpret the iso rules in a way that suggests she should not leave the house... So can you make a case that she is being completely unreasonable? NOPE didn't think so...
Ethically? Well - This is where you're gonna hate my answer. I'm gonna use the latest lingo that the feminazis have introduced.... It could be argued you're trying to use 'coercive control' to compel your ex to comply with a court order when clearly she has adequate grounds to breach that order. Ethically, you should not expect the orders to be complied with right now. Hell, in this case, I don't even think you should be asking for make-up time.
I reckon this is one example where reverse psychology would have been the better strategy... Suggest the sick kid stay with her and watch her whinge about how you're not prepared to do the heavy lifting blah blah.
Hey GLASSHALFFUL... Did you hear that god almighty screech a few days ago? That was the sound my ex made when I told her that I had the kids vaccinated....
Mate at one point you said that the rule was a 5km radius from home... Comparing apples to pears. 5km radius when was when we were all in lockdown to prevent the spread and to prevent us getting Covid....
The lockdown you're now experiencing isnt applicable to the whole state. Grasping at straws?
So let me just answer according to your criteria above...
1. Legally? well short version - yup a technical breach.
FAMILY LAW ACT 1975 - SECT 70NAE
(4) A person (the respondent ) is taken to have had a reasonable excuse for contravening a parenting order to the extent to which it deals with whom a child is to live with in a way that resulted in the child not living with a person in whose favour the order was made if:(a) the respondent believed on reasonable grounds that the actions constituting the contravention were necessary to protect the health or safety of a person (including the respondent or the child)
"health and safety of A person". So, by breaching the ex has protected the safety of the little old lady you're child didn't walk past at Macca's because the kid needs to go to the toilet.
In short - there is no way in hell you want to fight this one in court. It is not about family law trumping lockdown rules. It is about whether or not a judge would accept the ex had reasonable grounds to breach the family court orders.. So the only real hang up is whether or not the 'respondent believed on reasonable grounds...'? Eering on the side of caution seems reasonable. It also seems reasonable to interpret the iso rules in a way that suggests she should not leave the house... So can you make a case that she is being completely unreasonable? NOPE didn't think so...
Ethically? Well - This is where you're gonna hate my answer. I'm gonna use the latest lingo that the feminazis have introduced.... It could be argued you're trying to use 'coercive control' to compel your ex to comply with a court order when clearly she has adequate grounds to breach that order. Ethically, you should not expect the orders to be complied with right now. Hell, in this case, I don't even think you should be asking for make-up time.
I reckon this is one example where reverse psychology would have been the better strategy... Suggest the sick kid stay with her and watch her whinge about how you're not prepared to do the heavy lifting blah blah.
Hey GLASSHALFFUL... Did you hear that god almighty screech a few days ago? That was the sound my ex made when I told her that I had the kids vaccinated....
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