Trn years ago my ex husband took me to court for custody of our young children, as the new shared parenting laws had just come in he was awarded 50:50 shared care. This has not worked in our case with both children suffering from clinical anxiety. Our son is 18 and has chooses to live with his dad, our daughter is 13 and wants to live with me however her dad has always played mind games with the children and he is telling me one thing but telling her something else, he says things like " if you live with yr mum you will be tearing our family apart"
Our daughter is very sensitive and doesn't want to hurt her dad but still wants to live with me. He tells me if that's what she really wants then we will discuss it.
What I am wanting to know is that if we both agree that she tries living with me, do we need to do anything about the orders
And secondly, if he doesn't agree but she really wants to, what do I need to do? If she refuses to go back to her dads what will happen
Thankyou so much
Our daughter is very sensitive and doesn't want to hurt her dad but still wants to live with me. He tells me if that's what she really wants then we will discuss it.
What I am wanting to know is that if we both agree that she tries living with me, do we need to do anything about the orders
And secondly, if he doesn't agree but she really wants to, what do I need to do? If she refuses to go back to her dads what will happen
Thankyou so much