The only reason I am asking for sole decision making on those 3 things is because ive tried to organise these things with him and it ends in the verbal attacks for a mere suggestion. 1 thing out of everything our son needs has been put in place. The rest... well honestly if I don't push for that now, atleast with medical and education, it will just be a night mare and if I just go ahead and enrol him in school and make appointments it will be worse. s**t I was insulted over 20 times for asking how much time he needed before I left to pick up my car from his parents house (1 min from his and he just needed to drop the key there) after he finally agreed to give it back after 3 months of me asking.
Honestly just want these things to stop being put off because he won't come to the table and discuss it. Our son needs resp specialist, ENT, OT, ASD assessment, allergist and ive not even been able to get a paediatrician because he keeps cracking it when I bring it up. Been trying to get appointments since Jan and ive gotten 1 booked for Nov...