Hi,
We have interim consent orders which state that if either party want to take kids out of state 21days notice is given. They also state we have Week about for school holidays. Wednesday night we get a message to state that she has booked flights interstate for this Saturday and she will not be at changeover next Friday until at least 4hrs after the fact as she is not flying back till after changeover time. We booked a weekend away with the kids Months ago which she knew about as we asked if we could pick up kids at 2:30pm instead of 3:10pm as we had quite a long drive and can’t set up in dark. We were told no. Mind you this was asked weeks ago. We are in a dilemma as we don’t want to go without the kids but if we don’t there is no point going. If we don’t go we are letting other kids down. If we do go without them will we be breaching orders not being there 4hrs after ordered changeover time. We don’t know what to do. She doesn’t listen to her lawyer. We asked her if she could change return flight to earlier and told where to go. We asked her to drop kids to us and told same thing.
We have interim consent orders which state that if either party want to take kids out of state 21days notice is given. They also state we have Week about for school holidays. Wednesday night we get a message to state that she has booked flights interstate for this Saturday and she will not be at changeover next Friday until at least 4hrs after the fact as she is not flying back till after changeover time. We booked a weekend away with the kids Months ago which she knew about as we asked if we could pick up kids at 2:30pm instead of 3:10pm as we had quite a long drive and can’t set up in dark. We were told no. Mind you this was asked weeks ago. We are in a dilemma as we don’t want to go without the kids but if we don’t there is no point going. If we don’t go we are letting other kids down. If we do go without them will we be breaching orders not being there 4hrs after ordered changeover time. We don’t know what to do. She doesn’t listen to her lawyer. We asked her if she could change return flight to earlier and told where to go. We asked her to drop kids to us and told same thing.