Hi,
I have 4 children to my ex, I was with him for 9 years and have been seperate from him for 3 1/2 years now. In this time was sever domestic violence to which we also lived with his parents and they witnessed this violence.
We went to court and got a no contact order, his mother swore under oath (lied) and said she had never witnessed any violence or bruising on me.
He is now in jail for murdering his next girlfriend and his parents now want access to my kids.
I've just received an email from a lawyer stating that they want to reconcile with the children (after 3 1/2 years of no contact)
This in my eyes is in no way the best interest of the children as they still have a relationship with their son, have put him first throughout all the domestic violence and have had 3 1/2 years to apply or ask for some kind of access. The ages of my children are 11, 8, 6 & 5. The 6 and 5 year old have no idea who these people are as they were so young when we left and the older two to my knowledge have blocked them out of their memories and never speak of them or ask to see them.
What are the chances when I decline their initial email for access that they will get access at court?
Thank
I have 4 children to my ex, I was with him for 9 years and have been seperate from him for 3 1/2 years now. In this time was sever domestic violence to which we also lived with his parents and they witnessed this violence.
We went to court and got a no contact order, his mother swore under oath (lied) and said she had never witnessed any violence or bruising on me.
He is now in jail for murdering his next girlfriend and his parents now want access to my kids.
I've just received an email from a lawyer stating that they want to reconcile with the children (after 3 1/2 years of no contact)
This in my eyes is in no way the best interest of the children as they still have a relationship with their son, have put him first throughout all the domestic violence and have had 3 1/2 years to apply or ask for some kind of access. The ages of my children are 11, 8, 6 & 5. The 6 and 5 year old have no idea who these people are as they were so young when we left and the older two to my knowledge have blocked them out of their memories and never speak of them or ask to see them.
What are the chances when I decline their initial email for access that they will get access at court?
Thank