I am not controlling, nor a perpetrator of domestic violence thank you. I am a woman who has been trodden on and walked on and have had enough. He bullied me into signing consent orders that gave him a 65% share of our assets when a lawyer told me I was entitled to 70% to 80%, he’s ripped off his own kids with child support. And to put it plainly I’m sick of being told how things are going to be. I’m sick of doing the right thing to keep the peace. And I for the first time I want to fight back and push for whatever little damn rights I may have. Thanks for your advice anyway.